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It’s Not Only Possible, but Beneficial, to Attempt an Amicable Divorce

When you hear the word divorce, it’s not unusual to think about strong feelings: bitterness, acrimony and vengeance. Sure, emotions may be flying high. There are many questions to ask – and answer – and many decisions to make. However, when the two spouses can agree to disagree and work together to end their marriage amicably, there doesn’t have to be a legal bloodbath.

Whether the issue is about money and assets or, perhaps more importantly, the welfare of your children, it is possible to go through a divorce without screaming and name-calling. Civility can prevail. Collaborative law divorce will allow you to settle matters more quickly and likely less expensively than a traditional divorce. In an effort to buck trends and endeavor a kinder, gentler divorce, here are a few things to consider:

Maturity and Mutual Respect

You started out, hopefully, in love. You grew apart – for whatever reason. Try to hold onto the respect you once had for each other, even if it has waned now. Communication is the key.

Remember the Children

When in doubt, put your children first. Even if you feel you have many reasons to dislike you spouse at the moment, your children need you to be strong. A messy divorce can inflict lasting emotional trauma on the children and cause them to form negative perceptions of marriage in their adult lives.

Choose an Emotionally Mature Attorney

When hiring a divorce attorney, it’s important to choose someone with the experience and knowledge to assist you with your desire to do this amicably. However, you also need someone who will be by your side if, and when, you need to play hardball.

Contact Ron Graziano at Cherry Hill, NJ-based Graziano & Flynn. Mr. Graziano is an experienced, fearless family attorney who will guard your interests, protect your children and work tirelessly to do what’s best for you throughout divorce proceedings. Call today for a consultation.

Client Reviews
Attorney Graziano is one of the brightest and most compassionate professionals which anyone could work with! He is a great advocate and is extremely knowledgable of the judicial system. He made a very unpleasant legal situation a pleasant journey, and he helped keep things in perspective and in a positive light. I fully recommend him without reservation! Danielle
Robyn made the divorce process bearable by making sure I was ok every step of the way. She was a fighter when she needed to be and compassionate the rest of the time. The thing I liked best about her is that she was encouraging when I needed to get my end of the work done. She was reasonably priced and worked hard to get my case settled. I have since recommended her to 3 other friends who have retained her services. Ana Z.
It seemed like my case took forever but I trusted Ron Graziano and listened to what he had to say. Mr Graziano said that the insurance company was not being fair and that we should go to trial. The trial was very nerve racking however he eased my mind and killed them with proof and knowledge. My outcome of my trial brought me to tears of joy. I could never imagine such a good outcome. Listen to him, have faith and you too will be impressed. Robin
After a divorce, my ex-husband was not keeping up with his scheduled child support payments. With the help and knowledge of Robyn Flynn, I was able to resolve this issue. Being a single mother of three children, Robyn Flynn made me a priority. I felt respected by her always keeping me informed and encouraged. She was not only my lawyer, but a friend during a very stressful time in my life. I would never use another attorney other than Robyn Flynn and highly recommend her to my friends as a trustworthy, professional and experienced lawyer. Anna H.
Ron is an extremely trustworthy lawyer. Listen to what he says and have faith in him, you will be as impressed as I am! I couldn't have dreamed of a better outcome in my case. I wouldn't have wanted anyone else to represent me, I highly recommend him to anyone looking for an amazing lawyer!!
His staff is amazing as well!!
Robyn is an excellent litigator and educated/guided me throughout my divorce. She is incredibly gifted in managing your case and fighting for you with opposing consul. Through the dark days she kept me going and helped me get the results me and my children deserved. Chris K.

(Results may vary depending upon your particular facts and legal circumstances.)